Grapevine

There are times when being a male can be overly complicated. For example, trying to plan your life around the Stanley Cup Finals can be a daunting task. However, I recently found myself in one of life’s paradoxes that I cannot seem to shake.

I have learned that a woman I know might be interested in having sex with me.

I know what you’re all thinking: how is that complicated, or a bad thing at all? You are partly correct. At the end of the day it is a good thing, knowing that an attractive female might be willing to have intercourse with you. My problem with the situation is that I cannot stop thinking about this once platonic friend as more than such in my mind. All I can think about is how I could change things from a friendship to a relationship, and realistically that’s not a good way to maintain a friendship.

Second, I know somewhere in my male subconscious I am very proud of the following statements – but on the outside I can honestly say I’m not sure how to feel. This mysterious women who might have sex with me is really only interested because of several fantastic references from my past partners. It just make me wonder if my best asset to any relationship is the effort I put into sex. I just thought I would be known as a great guy and not this skilled sexual being.

Anyway I think we are finally going to make an honest effort towards this blog, have to see where it ends up.